Don't Blow It

Lawyers who are or aspire to be leaders must learn to self-manage. Especially when stressed or under pressure (and who isn't, at least part of the time?) it's easy to let self-management slide in the face of provocation. Some attorneys I know offer a blanket apology to staff and colleagues - something like, 'I'm feeling stressed, so please excuse me if I blow up or yell at you or throw things, ok?' I don't recommend that approach; it's been than nothing, I suppose, but it's actually announcing that bad behavior is coming, apparently largely unchecked.
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Julie A. Fleming (of Life at the Bar LLC) offers attorney development coaching and consulting for associates and partners who want to create successful, satisfying and sustainable practices